Apr 17, 2026
In this episode of the Parent Companion for Play Therapy series, I introduce a visual way to understand your child’s behavior before and after child-centered play therapy — what I call The Wave Model: From Tsunami to Tide. Before children develop the skills to regulate, communicate, and make sense of their emotions,...
Apr 7, 2026
In this episode, I explain the concept of the pendulum swing and why it is such an important picture for understanding what happens in child-centered play therapy. When children have felt powerless in everyday life, the permissive playroom gives them a chance to experience the opposite. They are allowed to take charge,...
Mar 31, 2026
In this episode, I explain the concept of the anger iceberg and how it completely changes the way we understand our children’s behavior. What we see on the surface—yelling, hitting, defiance, aggression—is often just a small piece of what’s actually going on. Underneath that anger is something much bigger:...
Mar 25, 2026
In this episode of the Parent Companion for Play Therapy series, I walk you through how birth order shapes your child’s personality—and why that matters more than most parents realize. I explain the common tendencies of oldest, middle, and youngest children, and how the dynamics between siblings influence...
Mar 20, 2026
In this episode of the Parent Companion for Play Therapy series, I explain one of the most important mindset shifts we can make as parents: behavior is communication. When children don’t yet have an emotional vocabulary, they can’t tell us what they’re feeling—they have to show us. That’s why big emotions...